I've just got back from the school run and am feeling quite sad about a conversation I had with my 6year old daughter on the way there.
She told me that when she plays tag 2 of the girls always want her to be it. I told her she didn't have to if she didn't want to she could go and play something else. She said she would like to but these girls tell her she won't be invited to their birthday parties if she doesn't join in the game.
For context my daughter has some mobility issues which mean she will not be able to keep up and tag others in the game. The children in the class know this as it is obvious due to her treatments and equipment that she has at school. We also had problems last year with one of these girls pulling and hurting my daughters arm (again to get her to play with the girl when she didn't want to) which we dealt with by giving her strategies to use when this happened. This worked and it stopped.
But I'm at a loss as to how to deal with the verbal comments, and "mean" attitude. She is a sweet natured child and is puzzled by why people would say things like this, she is also not confrontational and will just go along with it even though she's not enjoying it. I worry that as she can appear different that she will have a lifetime of needing to manage these situations. I want her to be able to deal with it nicely but firmly.
Any suggestions would be really helpful, thanks.
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Biffsquiggled · 10/03/2017 09:28
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