In summery to try to keep it short my 14 year old son has been bullied on and off for 3 years. The lad has always got away with it and school seem very uninterested. The year head said to me " well its not been constant " she said " it is complicated as they have been friends on and off" and said things " he was prevoked "
well recently my son was asked to fill in a vacant spot on a school trip abroad and they put my son in a room with the lad. He spent 4 days being called tramp , gypsy amongst other things. on the 3d day he was strangled by the bully to the point he thought he was going to die. ( the teachers were well informed about what was going on , even one of the teachers came to him when my son was sittting in the corridor after being choked.) Since being home he has nightmares every night and wakes in the night crying and shouting, crying at the smallest thing. Its heatbreaking to see the damage he has caused . Upon returning to school he has given a statement and the school made all sorts of assurances that he would be kept safe , but they didnt impliment a single thing they hadnt even spoke to the lad, they have been to busy. My son came home on Thursday a complete wreck and cried for 2 hours . The decision has been made to move my son to another school as he has lost all faith in the school and i think its the only way for him to move forward. Then today, we learn the bully is going to move also and it wont take 10 guesses as to where. Does anyone know if there is any way or regulation to stop the boy following my son to the new school? We are at our wits end and my sons on the verge of a nervous breakdown. He prob has said this to mess my sons head up further but i cant take that risk we need to stop this boy moving and give my son peace !
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taggi32 · 25/04/2014 23:10
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