He went into your 7 in September and seemed to be enjoying it. However, yesterday (after a few days of them all bickering how 11 year olds do) 2 of his friends who have been with him in primary school as well, told him they hated him and they don't want to be friends with him anymore. One of these boys was his best friend for 3 years and they used to be very close and my DS is devastated. I couldn't get him to go to school this morning and he got so upset he was almost sick and short of pinning him down and dressing him I don't know what else I could have done.
I tried being sympathetic, I cuddled him, I tried being forceful and getting a bit cross. I called the school and said he was ill. DH said I should have told them exactly what is going on but I just think if I do that and the kids get told off or whatever then it is going to get out of hand and won't blow over.
I have told him he has to go to school tomorrow, even if I have to take him in his pjs but I don't know what the hell to do. It all stems from them all going to the park last week and I think DS got the hump about something and got moody and they all started arguing and it has just got out of hand. They all live near each other , get the same bus etc so I just don't know what to do for the best.
I am gutted for him, have had problems with bullying and low self esteem at primary school and I really thought senior school would be a fresh start for him but apparently not :(
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BettySwollocksandaCrustyRack · 28/11/2013 10:08
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