i know i am, im just not hearing it from anyone in RL
some of you might recall my post a couple of days ago regarding my 15 week old and wether to start him on solids. well from about four oclock on friday morning he's been feeding every hour and half to two hours, i'm assuming this is a growth spurt and i'm not concerned about this sudden increase in frequency of feeds. but yesterday after feeding at half past 4 he was looking more at half five so i put him to the breast and he got really frustrated and kept pulling away. there was no milk and he was really fretting. i kept trying him on but same reaction so i made up a 4 ounce bottle of formula. the first time he's ever had formula. he refused it for a while but was still screeching and eventually he took it. i did this as a one off just to let my milk build up again. i fed him myself after his bath at 8pm and he slept until 4 am this morning.
but my problem is, my mum is now saying she knew for a while he wasnt getting enough from me but didnt want to say. she says she knew it would happen eventually and that i can still feed him myself in the morning and evenings and give him a bottle durring the day. i think she was actually getting excited and said that i should give her some bottles and formula to keep at her house.
i have no intention of replacing his feeds with formula. breastfeeding is going well, and i know he will settle again. i have tried many times to explain this to my mum. ive explained that by putting him to the breast my supply will increase. but she seems to think i'm being a know all. ive told her ive researched it and taken advice from breastfeeding support group but she seems to have the impression that im just being stubborn. she makes me feel guilty by saying that breastfeeding my son is too demanding and that it means i dont have the time to spend with my older ds. anytime the subject comes up now we end up rowing.
mu mum thinks im being stubborn, not providing enough milk for ds2, not giving enough attention to ds1 and dont really know what i'm talking about. i know she'll probably always think this but it's really getting to me now. i dont want her to think i would purposely do that to either of my children.
i know im just having a whinge but it helps to get it out of my system. someone come and reassure me that what im doing is right and i shouldnt just switch to formula now because ive had to use it once. btw i would have given him ebm but my pump has been returned to manufacturer and i have none in freezer.
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booyhoo · 13/09/2009 23:21
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