I have just found out that I am pregnant and can't stop crying. DD is 18 months old and is a very frequent and enthusiastic feeder, she is still fed to sleep and for naps and feeds about 7 times during the day but no longer at night.
I don't know what to do for the best. I had planned on feeding her till she wanted to self wean as she seems to get so much from it. She will be 2 Yr 3 months when the baby arrives and want to minimize any jealousy issues - with this in mind would it be better to wean now or tandem feed? I just can't imagine weaning her now as she is a very picky eater but equally I am already feeling depressed about this pregnancy (wanted a bigger gap as DD is quite a full on child) and can't imagine how difficult it will be to juggle the two of them.
Also, if I am breastfeeding whilst pregnant will this mean I will be leaching valuable vitamins from the unborn baby to feed to DD in my milk?
Am feeling so guilty and confused at the moment Would love some words of wisdom, I just feel so sorry for DD and want her to feel loved and safe when the baby arrives and not pushed out.
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decision whether to tandem feed or wean 18 month as am newly pregnant
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jumblies · 15/04/2009 22:12
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