Hi there. I'm 35 wks pregnant with my 2nd baby and after some advice.
Rewind to 3.8 yrs ago when my son was born. Had assumed I would BF, as all the women in my children have done. Went to to BF workshop at my local hospital, read up on it all etc etc. Ended up with c-section and feeling pretty ill and spaced out after the birth. in teh recovery room I had skin-to-skin with my son for about an hour but he didn't latch on. Not much help from MW. Eventually they told me his blood sugar was low and he 'needed' formula. Don;t know how true that was. Over the next 3 days I BF'd on demand, but he never got a good latch. Milk came in big time and got very badly engorged breasts. Hospital advised using a breastpump. This just increased the supply and I got mastitis. I saw a BF counsellor who was nice, but to be honest, it didn't help that much. Struggled massively once back at home. Was Bf-ing on demand, but DS still wasn't latching on properly, despite advice from several MWs / HVS and a visiting BF counsellor. I tried feeding him by tube and cup so as not to get him used to bottles and 'sabotage' BF-ing. He rejected all of it. I started pumping/expressing when he was about 3 weeks old in between feeds, as I found BF-ing so painful. Eventually I got very bad 2nd bout of mastitis for which I was hospitalised and when DS was 6 wks old I gave up BF-ing altogether. I suffered from very bad PND after this, partly triggered (I believe) by the stress of the whole BF-ing debacle.
I would dearly love to BF this baby for just a wee bit longer and maybe in more of a relaxed fashion.
How do I go about avoiding the nightmare of last time?
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MrsMattie · 24/10/2008 11:40
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