I want to drop some of DS's night feeds. He is ten months and was feeding 7, 9, 12, 3 and 5 before starting the day at 6 and it is exhausting me. Touch wood this last week I seem to have managed to get rid of the nine feed. I am currently not feeding him between the hours of 12 and five so he gets his 12ish feed and then he gets one at five. He wakes up at threeish and cries a bit. I check him and then leave him. First night he went to sleep after fifteen minutes of on off crying - I checked him a couple of times to reassure. Last night he went to sleep after a minute and a half of on off crying!
I am wondering if it is confusing to offer him a feed sometimes when he wakes and other times not to. The first night he didn't wake for a feed at five - or rather he did wake but was back asleep before I got to him. Last night he did wake up for it and I gave it to him. Should I not give him that feed now because he didn't take it the first night ? Am I making things harder because he might think that he can have a feed because he gets one at 12 and at five? Is that too mixed a message?
Any advice welcome - I am not sure what is for the best but I do know I need more sleep!
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Best way to drop night feeds?
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Stefka · 14/08/2008 08:38
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