hi all...could really use some advice and help about feeding ds1, am getting so low about it.
he is 6 weeks old and was a big boy at birth - 9lbs 1. he lost 9% of his birthweight over the first few weeks...this really eroded my confidence in bf at the time. it was established that he wasn't opening his mouth wide enough when feeding (nipple feeding rather than bf). i was advised to top up with formula to get his weight up. didn't want to go down that road but would give a bottle of formula in the evenings before bed, which had the advantage of helping him sleep better. 2 weeks ago he was finally over his birthweight and seemed happy and thriving... i continued with evening bottles, and bf at this point waas still a bit of a struggle (fussing at breast, often falling asleep after just a few minutes despite my attempts to wake him) but I felt like things were slowly improving.
however, in the middle of last week i got a nasty tummy bug which left me totally exhausted and i couldn't bf as often...we started giving him more forumla feeds - first thing in the morning and again at lunch - so 3 per day. to be honest i felt as if he was enjoying this - crying less and so on, so even when i started to feel better i (probably incredibly stupidly) kept this up. initially i didn't notice any probs with my milk supply and he was taking to the breast as before.
over the past few days however, this has changed. his fussing at the boob has got worse (will only feed for a very short amount at a time) before pulling off or falling asleep. i'm worried my milk supply has gone way down - boobs don't seem to be getting hard between feeds and he never seems satisfied. i popped out for an hour last night after attempting to cluster feed him for over two hours - he fed on and off over that period but as soon as i was out started screaming and my DH had no choice but to give him a bottle of formula, which of course he wolfed down. i also feel that he's gone back to nipple feeding and won't open his mouth wide for me, despite following advice to correct this and using avent teats on the bottles.
my plan was to gradually decrease amount of formula feeds at breakfast and lunch over next few days until we're back to one evening bottle, and really persevere with the bf in the hope that he will start feeding for longer and the correct latch will return with work and effort. does this sound feasible to you? has anyone cut back on combined feeding successfully, even with a rather 'fussy' feeder?
thing is, i am incredibly worried that i am going to end up starving him if i do this. . the ff last night was given at about 8pm and he didn't feed well during the night - he now seems rather sleepy but i don't know if this is down to hunger or just that he's sleepy. i feel like such a failure when it comes to bf and feel so stupid for continuing with the formula because i was so concerned about his weight etc. some positive advice and encouragement would be really appreciated..am feeling pretty desperate about it all.xxxx
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glittercaz · 13/09/2007 08:31
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