So we have had to start combine feeding for now as my supply not quite meeting demand.
Which obviously has its pros and cons, one benefit atleast is feeding can be shared and I can get some rest or so atleast that's what I thought..
DH not being proactive it's not on his radar as to when DS next feed is not is he then prepping ahead in terms of sterilising and washing bottles ready or even when I've basically got everything ready for him to do a 5am feed this morning after I'd been up with DS for 6hrs he still didn't put ready made formula back in the fridge like I asked if he wasn't needing to give DS more than I measured out.
I can't do everything even to the point that he still expects at the weekend for me to be doing the nappy changes with him
I said you need to do this on your own at weekend I need a rest and he gets defensive and says well it's easier when there's 2 of us!
Well I wish I had that luxury Monday -Friday!
Thing is he says I feel I need to to more and I want to be a good dad etc but he seems to lack the get up and go and the proactive behaviour to then put those words into action but I don't have enough energy and strength to power that for him and we have discussed this so many tines!
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user1489931797 · 07/01/2018 11:02
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