I'm still bfing my 23 month old boy. I'm also 36 weeks pg.
Since moving house and starting nursery 2 x afternoons per week, DS has become more and more demanding for bf. He gets really upset if I say no if I'm cooking, for example. I realise he might be feeling unsettled, insecure, etc so I do feed him more than I used to (at bedtime and nap times only before).
I thought I'd be fine with tandem feeding if that's what happened but my nipples are so sore and I'm getting really irritable when I'm feeding him and I'm overtired. I'm worried the timing is now all cocked up because the new baby is coming soon and could displace him even more if I stop bfing DS now.
I'm worried that it's just all going to be too much with new baby and 2 yo DS both wanting bf and there's going to be much distress when I have to put nutritional needs of new baby before DS bfing needs.
What to do? Do I stop bfing? See how it goes with the two of them? Be more strict with DS's bfing and revert back to bed and nap times only and go with the tears and tantrums when I refuse at other times?
Sorry to be so long and garbled. I'm very weary!
Any advice would be much appreciated.
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WinkyWinkola · 21/03/2007 11:31
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