Dd2 is 11 months, she wakes 3-4 times a night to feed, sometimes taking ages to go back down. She's never had a bottle, we don't cosleep.
I'm going back to work full time in 3 weeks (DH will be home during the day). All came to a head last night when I left DH with the kids (asleep after bedtime) to go and visit a friend who has had a terrible bereavement, not something I could rush away from.
So, she woke up and screamed bloody murder for 3 hours, it's evident she has no idea how to put herself to sleep without being breastfed.
I had a nightmare breastfeeding Dd1 so this time I read all the books and went for an attachment parenting style, basically every squeak she made I fed her, she's happy and content in all other aspects apart from her inability to sleep. I really regret not introducing a dummy.
I'm dreading going back to work because I'm sure she's going to do the reverse cycling thing and feed all bloody night and I'll drop down from exhaustion through no sleep and demanding job!
Saying all that I've loved breastfeeding and my ideal would be to feed her morning and night but I can't see us ever getting to that point.
Can anyone offer some advice?
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