Hi,
Sorry, this is long - but any BF experts please stick with it and help me!
I'm really just looking for some advice on where to go next as I'm finding feeding pretty stressful at times. Am trying to exclusively give LO breast milk, I feed from the breast all day but express a bottle for OH to give her before our bedtime so that I can get a few hours sleep (and OH can have some daddy/daughter time).
I have given the odd bottle of formula when having a tough time - e.g. week 1 with cracked nipples and too painful to feed (expressed mostly but couldn't keep up with demand) and when I couldn't express enough for a bottle for OH to give.
I've also had a hormonal reaction and have had two outbreaks of PEP (polymorphic eruption in pregnany) which have been intensely itchy and extremely uncomfortable. As I'm BFing docs could only give very limited support e.g. low level anti hestimine and calamine cream (no heavy duty anti hestimines or steroid cream). I had this the week after she was born and then again a few weeks ago, which seemed to coincide with a growth spurt for LO, so I'm assuming the increase in hormones producing more milk caused it - no one can really tell me as docs don't seem to know much about PEP.
We also had some reflux issues from about week 3-5 so that was quite stressful too.
I'm now over the second bout of PEP and reflux issues seem to be gone but LO has inexplicably started fighting the feed at least once a day. She latches on for about 5 minutes and then pulls off and gives me a hunger cry. I try getting her back on, switching breasts, massaging breasts, burping her, calming her down and trying again... nothing works. I've ended up taking out some of the expressed bottle I've made to finish the feed or giving her a bottle of formula when this happens.
I was worried my supply was low so did loads to combat that - lots of water, eating oats, feeding her more frequently, holding her close to me lots more, pumping after every feed - and still, at least once a day we have a screamathon and its really getting me down. Also, I'm pumping a good amount so I don't actually think it's anything to do with supply. I thought it was a phase but we're into the third week of this now. It was mostly during the late afternoon feed and occasionally the early evening feed as well. This morning it happened at the 6am feed which I'm afraid I didn't deal with very well and got very frustrated. I gave her expressed milk eventually.
What is this? A phase/problem with supply or latch/normal for 9 weeks/anything else?
OH keeps telling me to give up as he can see how much it's getting me down when this happens but it seems silly to give up when I'm still producing and want to keep BFing. Does this ever get any easier because if it doesn't I may have to throw the towel in as this is not good for any of us. Any advice?
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9 weeks BFing and having problems, advice please :(
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purplemunkey · 12/01/2015 10:13
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