Can I ask you to see into the future?! Or, rather, to tell me about your toddler (self)-weaning experiences?
I have a 5-day work trip abroad coming up in November to which I need to commit firmly now. My daughter, nearly 18months, will be turning 2 that month. She still breastfeeds several times a day, often pretty avidly, though perhaps mostly for comfort. I’ve already done some work for this trip, thinking I’d probably not be breastfeeding by then, but I’m now not so sure. Taking her isn’t an option. So I’m trying to guess (!) at whether she’ll be likely to have weaned. Or whether I should just back out of the trip. Or even whether being away might present a good opportunity to wean her… I understand there’s such a lot of change 18-24 months, so I don’t know if she’ll need me so much by then.
A bit more information… she’s petite & not that wild about food. She’s quite ‘mummy-ish’. We’ve not yet been apart more than 10hours. For the last fortnight, she’s had no milk at night (7pm-5am); she’d gone down to just 1 feed, so I decided to encourage her to shift to cuddles instead. She takes longer to go back to sleep without milk but seems fine. I think my milk has dropped recently (no longer pumping at work). She likes cow’s milk from a cup. I’ve never wanted to rush her so I know that the only safe answer is ‘don’t go’, but it’s such a big trip to miss out on that I wanted to think it through properly with your help. Just writing this, I’m already seeing more starkly that the leap from only 10hours apart to 5 days is a big issue, even without the breastfeeding…
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toddler self-weaning experiences? -- work dilemma
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fieryelephant · 23/04/2014 16:46
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