My DS is just under 5 weeks old. we started off OK, with just a couple pf minor issues which I was trying to iron out by visiting the breast feeding drop in clinics, but in the last couple of weeks he suddenly will not latch properly during night feeds. It can be a problem by day too, but more chance of success during the day. He just clamps down, bites, won't take a deep mouthful etc. when I try to put him on, using the techniques I've learned and had success with, he just brings his bottom lip closed. Even when he does go on al out right, he pulls off and clamps down on me.
I have been going to breast feeding clinics or having home visits twice a week since birth and it's not helping. He does it properly in the clinic and the advisors there say "oh look, that looks perfect. You're doing really well." Which isn't getting me any further. A couple of different advisors, who have seen me problems have either said that it may not be solvable during night feeds due to his tiredness and that it would work itself out, or commented in how wriggly a baby he is and she could see why I was struggling, but didn't really help much. It's getting to the point where I dread going to bed because I know it's going to be a struggle feeding him.
I just tried to feed him with a nipple shield as he was hurting me so much and it hurt just as much through that. He got so frustrated with it that he just chomped down really hard. He has little tooth buds on the bottom too so it can be very sore. It's really hard to keep taking him off and re latching too. I have carpal tunnel so my wrists and hands are quite painful, especially at night. He also seems to get more and more frustrated (as do I), and so clamps down more, or closes his lips tightly in protest and won't go on, until I put him down to sleep due to his refusal at which point he cries for food. I'm at a bit of a loss. Any ideas?
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Problems with latch during night feeds - really getting me down
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Havingkittens · 17/05/2013 04:40
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