I have a nephew who's 16 months old, only a few months older than my DS. They live in a different country and have ways of dealing with him which are different from mine. Still, I can't help being concerned and I would really appreciate people's opinions on this one.
My nephew was bf until last week. My sister-in-law was convinced that bf was the reason for his poor sleep (has always been a poor sleeper apparently, waking up through the night to feed) and so decided to stop bf rather suddenly and abruptly. She took pills to stop her milk and moved out of the house for 5 days, leaving her DS with her parents . Well, her milk hasn't gone at all
and now that she's back home her DS is absolutely going out of his mind, so much so that he cries inconsolably at night and makes himself sick. I'm told he also scratches his face and slaps himself. Last night apparently he cried so much that he had seizures . My sister-in-law is letting him cry it out . My brother is up with him at night for some of the time and does manage to calm him down eventually. I'm told that he's always been left to cry loads at night but the hysteria and self harming are only recent and they think it's because he misses his bm.
I am incredibly worried about my DN. Can you tell me if what they're doing (letting him get so upset) is dangerous for this little boy?
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BimbaBirba · 30/01/2013 20:22
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