DD is my third and I BF DS1 and DS2 for a year and two years respectively, so although I don't claim to be an expert, I think I'm pretty experienced, know most of the problems/solutions/etc that come along with bfeeding Got all the t-shirts, you could say! But this little madam has presented me with a new one and I'd really appreciate any thoughts anyone has as to WHY this is happening and how I can solve it
She's 6 days old, breastfed fine from the start, latched on really well after the first couple of feeds. Milk came in with the full on breast engorgement at day 4 (ish) and since then she's had anger issues trouble with feeding. There is less nipple (and I have short ones anyway) but even if I express some off for her to give her something extra to grip on to with her gums, she latches on, sucks two or three times and lets go. So she hasn't forgotten her latch, it just seems that she won't keep up the action for some reason. She is getting angry/frustrated and hungry. She swallows milk that ends up in her mouth during all the fussing so she is getting something - but I think she is stopping and going to sleep out of tiredness from reprated attempts at feeding, rather than because she is full. Twice since all this started I've expressed and given in, giving her the milk in a bottle to settle her. She gets very distressed and the whole process goes on for ages.
I think I've tried everything but please tell me if I've missed something obvious?? I've tried all different positions, squeezing the nipple/end of breast in to an easier shape, biological nurturing approach, skin to skin, um, you name it, I think I've tried it, I just can't remember at this time of night!
No sign of tongue tie or thrush or anything. Nothing new (taste/smell) on me.
Why is she doing this?? How do we get past this. I really don't want to carry on having to bottle feed her my milk when I now she can feed beautifully. I just can't understand why she lets go every time and stops herself feeding.
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welliesandpyjamas · 05/10/2012 04:41
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