Any tips on how to discreetly feed a toddler while wearing a Marilyn Monroe-style dress where I have to get my breasts out over the top of the dress to feed him?
Do I just need to drape a pashmina over the top and hope DS doesn't try to claw it off?
I usually use the top up, vest down method and last time I fed DS by getting out my breast over the top of something, DH told me I was indecently exposing myself.
I'm going to a wedding on DH's side of the family, where the bride & her siblings were bottle fed because the idea of bf made their mum shudder, so I don't want to be too in-your-face (and I don't want DH to be embarassed!) although I don't mind people being able to see that I'm feeding. I doubt most of the family know anyone else who bf even a baby, and my PiL have stopped discussing DS's bf'ing, which suggests it's moved into the Taboo Topics of Conversation.
DS is nearly 21 m.o. and any feeds will be preceded by him screaming 'Milk! Noooow!'. While he feeds he will keep coming off the breast to chat to me and/or complain that I'm not reading to him like I do when feeding at home. He doesn't like noisy places, large groups of people or strangers trying to talk to him / touch him, so I anticipate him wanting lots of feeds.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Get advice and support with infant feeding from other users here.
Infant feeding
Discreetly bf'ing a toddler
25 replies
AngelDog · 27/09/2011 13:18
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.