I am feeling a bit low in confidence with my bf at the minute. My ds is 24 weeks and ebf, except for the past few days we have started him on solids as he was showing the signs of readiness. Since about 15 weeks his sleep has gone haywire - it has improved in fits and starts but there are still nights, like last night, where he wakes up every 2/3 hours. He can go longer then this between daytime feeds, so sometimes I doubt that he can actually be hungry but i am so tired that all i can think to do is to feed him back to sleep every time he wakes.
I thought i felt ok about feeding to sleep as I had read on here about people doing it and seeing it as a positive thing, but i mentioned it to my mum and she said he was just using me as a dummy, which i found hurtful as she has always been very supportive of me bf as she did it herself. i am also nervous as i am supposed to be going out of Friday, so will have to leave expressed milk with dh and am not confident how well ds will settle.
Am i doing a terrible thing by feeding to sleep? for the first time i feel a bit "tied" by bf, and have started to get a few "are you still feeding him" comments - he is not even 6m ffs! but i dont know many rl people who have done it for this long, and i ideally would like to get to at least a year. just looking for a bit if encouragement tbh!
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Moulesfrites · 11/07/2011 11:39
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