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I'm currently 16 weeks pregnant after suffering two mc's. The current pregnancy is high risk in that I have a high nt and just waiting for further results. Anywya I just wanted to ask anyone out there for some advice on my selfish sister. She has recently had a baby and while she was pregnant was extra careful with what she are , did etc. last weekend I went to her place with my inlaws for dinner and she had made good that is on the no no list for pregnancy. She cooked meat with wine, made a pie with feta cheese and salad with feta. Now I knew there may be a small chance of getting listeria from feta but still I want to play it safe seeing I'm high risk.when I asked my sister if the beef had wine in it she said only a small amout so I didn't eat it. As for the feta pie when I asked her if it had feta she said no, it had cheddar. I trusted her and are it but then noticed the cheese was white and tasted like feta. I asked her again and she denied it but in very sure it did have feta as I looked up the recipe later. What I m really angry and disappointed about it that she lied and had a very "don't really care about you" approach. When she was pregnant she made sure I didn't serve anything with wine in or anything in the forbidden list but obviously when it's me she doesn't care. I really don't need this worry at the moment but more importantly can't comprehend why she'd do such a thing! Does she want me to miscarry Again? I can't help feel really angry and feel we are going to have a big fallout. I'm i right to feel like this?
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Selfish sister
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Jellybean14 · 25/05/2014 17:40
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