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Today would have been my daughter's 17th birthday

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dilemma456 · 18/06/2010 17:31

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knickers0nmyhead · 18/06/2010 17:33

So sorry

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IzziesMummy · 18/06/2010 18:04

So sorry for you

My DD was still-born at 36.5weeks 2yrs ago. Her birthday would have been last Saturday, so I know a little bit about what you're going through. It's crap.

Wishing you a peaceful evening.

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Disenchanted3 · 18/06/2010 18:05

So, so sorry

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dilemma456 · 18/06/2010 19:24

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PotteringAlong · 18/06/2010 21:09

Couldn't read and not post. No words of wisdom but will be thinking of you, and your DD, tonight x

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shoshe · 18/06/2010 21:23

Dilemma, it's the not being able to share it with the people it should have matter to that is the worst.

My DS2's and DD's birthdays are so hard, I am no longer with their Father, Mom has died DS1 was only a child, when they came and went in this life.

It seems that only I remember them.

Take care and grieve for you child on her birthday tomorrow is another day, when we get on with our lives, with a small corner of our hearts torn.

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discombobulation · 18/06/2010 21:35

Oh wow what a world of emotion you must be going through today. A lifetime of feelings all at once. Real, heartfelt thoughts with you, Happy Birthday to your daughter.

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mamalovesmojitos · 18/06/2010 21:37

oh you poor thing, dilemma. you're not alone tonight, we on here are thinking of you and your lovely daughter. xx.

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CarGirl · 18/06/2010 21:41

dilema how hard this must be for you, thinking of you x

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dilemma456 · 18/06/2010 21:44

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CarGirl · 18/06/2010 21:45

how pants of your dp

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BingumyAndThob · 18/06/2010 22:04

I'm so sorry for your loss Dilemma and Izziesmummy.

What was your daughter's name? We can help keep her memory alive.

Sending you peace and strength.

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cornsilkey · 18/06/2010 22:06

hugs (())

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dilemma456 · 18/06/2010 23:59

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ThatVikRinA22 · 19/06/2010 00:12

how sad for you dilemma. im so sorry and im sorry you feel alone with your grief. be kind to yourself.

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BingumyAndThob · 19/06/2010 20:44

Lucy is a lovely name Happy Birthday Lucy, wherever you are now.

I'm sorry you don't have any rl support with this, but there are lots of people on here who understand as sadly they've experienced similar.

Take care.

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