Dad is not going to his brother's funeral. Now while he would never win brother of the year award and they did have a huge difference of opinion about their mother's care and money(my grandma is still alive) I find it strange he isn't going to the funeral at least for her sake.
My mum says that they will say dad is ill. But given that my uncle is dead I doubt that will illicit much sympathy.
I understand that nobody wants to be a hypocrite - but I'm not sure that lying to your aged mother quite elevates him out of hypocrite status.
I don't think my mum has given my dad much of a say about it "we are not going". I know dad won't want to take her because she will be rude and evil. But I don't get why he can't make up his own mind about whether he goes alone. He is a grown adult.
Families are weird.
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Not going to your brother's funeral seems a bit weird even if you didn't get on.
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thirtypence · 24/09/2009 01:04
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