Is that normal? She is 2 and a half, and when he died (he was my DPs brother) I sat her down and told her that her uncle had been very ill (she knew this already) and he had been so ill that he couldn't get better, so he died, which means he went to sleep for a very long time and we wouldn't be able to see him any more. I said that if she wanted to talk or ask questions it would be fine, and it was fine to feel sad. She just shrugged and ran off to play.
That was two weeks ago, a couple of times she has told me that her uncle is really poorly, and I have repeated that he was so poorly that he died, but I don't think she really understands.
Obviously I don't want her to be upset if she doesn't have to be, but equally I don't want her to somehow misunderstand and think that, for example, when I go hospital to have the baby I'm pregnant with, that I will die.
Any tips?
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LissyGlitter · 02/09/2009 22:01
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