dd1 is 4.3 and very sensitive/anxious, dh nan lived with pil's (the dd's are there at least once a week as mil looks after them when I work)
Dh nan been in hospital a few weeks and we have taken both the dd's in to visit and she was delighted to see them (especially dd2 who is almost 2 but when she was born we named her middle name after dh Nan) anyway nan died this afternoon. Mil phoned dh at 6pm and he text me but I was on my work xmas dinner so didnt see text till 6.45 and came straight home, however, in this time dd1 sensed what had happened so I explained that Nanny gone to be a star (with Dexter who was Mil rabbit that died in teh summer) she got upset and said she'll miss Nanny and I got a photo of them together and put it in her room.
Now she keeps saying she wishes she'd been nicer to her (they had a funny realtionship as both very similar characters and they clashed alot so quite often dd1 would only blow her a kiss goodbye rather than give her a kiss or she'd do a drawing but say that Nanny Alice couldnt have it etc etc and it didnt help that dd2 was def a favourite of Nanny as she was the baby and because of her name) how do I ensure dd1 doesnt dwell on things ??
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eandh · 08/12/2008 20:46
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