My DD1 (7) has been really calm since my FIL died yesterday AM. He lives quite far from us, but before she went to school yesterday I told her he had died early in the morning, she knew he wasn't well. She responded by saying or asking 'is heaven the place that people you love from your family go in your head so you can remember them??' Apart from that lovely thought she asked me not to tell her little sis (2) til she got home from school. So I Duly packed her off to school quite happily 'til I got a call from DH saying SIL was not happy that I had sent her to school. Her 2 kids were on easter holidays, but she says she wouldn't have sent them to school any way (They are 12 & 14 and she's only been married to BIL for two years so he was ther step-grand father). Was I so wrong to send (not upset 7 yo) to school?????? BTW, he only died yesterday morning at 5 am, but since then she has had his 2 kids (her natural grand kids) and her 2 kids & baby at her house 8am-9pm yesterday and today. All MIL wants is just her 2 sons there for a short time. SIL is making me feel really bad. MIL is too polite to say anything
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how should a 7 yo grieve (or not ) for her well loved grandfather
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drivinmecrazy · 18/04/2008 01:00
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