My Nan passed away a few weeks ago. We were extremely close and when I had the choice to go to the chapel of rest, I decided to go as I thought it would be nice to spend some quite time with her to say goodbye.
I think now, a few hours later I regret it. In a way it did help me understand that all I was viewing was a body and my Nan had gone, but the way she looked has really freaked me out and I’m worried it will take over my memories of the times we had together.
Has anyone else felt like this and later felt it was the right decision to go? Her funeral is tomorrow and I’m hoping that will help me put the nice images I have of her back in my head.
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I think I made the wrong decision
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Franta · 06/05/2021 21:36
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