Hello,
I hope it's ok to post in here. My friend recently had a TFMR at around 24/25 weeks. I bought a gift and unfortunately can't stop it from arriving as it's already on its way, but her OH has said they would rather forget the whole thing happened (they haven't told their son, and they didn't choose to see her so it's their way of processing their loss).
I'd ordered before I realised this and it's a bracelet with her baby's initial and birthstone.
Should I keep it and maybe give it to her one day or never give it to her altogether? I don't want to upset her in any way. I'm not bothered about the money of course, and I can't return it so not sure what to do with it. Please don't jump on me, I didn't mean to be insensitive I genuinely thought it might be a nice idea and subtle enough that her son wouldn't question its meaning.
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middlemuddle · 04/10/2019 16:11
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