I posted previously because my ex DH had ended his own life and I was looking for support in helping my 7 year old DS.
We just had the coroners inquest for him. We heard that he had been crying out for help for 6 months before and due to multiple failures at every turn through the NHS he slipped through the system and didn't get the help he needed. He had at least 2 phonecalls with the MH crisis teams where he outlined exactly what he intended to do and his chosen methods and after the phone was put down nothing happened. We also heard they have majorly failed in safeguarding DS as the answers he gave on the phone calls indicated he could either have taken his life in front of DS or 'taken DS with him' I feel like I need to start again with processing. I was so angry with him for not asking for help and there he was crying out for it.
He didn't share his suffering with anyone. It was a bolt out of the blue. He was such a private man.. it would have taken so much courage to ask for help.
I'm absolutely gutted.
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Matilda15 · 18/09/2018 18:01
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