My friend has very recently died. People talk about messages they get from their loved ones as signs. I wasn't getting anything whereas others were. I felt left out and started to question how much she cared about me, even though a mutual friend told me that she did and now 'she' had been given the task to 'look out for me'.
I felt guilty as it is because I didn't get the chance to tell her how much I cared and loved her and that I miss her. I miss her words of wisdom - yeah, even her stubbornness!
But just now I was listening to some music when up popped my voicemail message. I clicked into it - and there was nothing. My child's toy walkie talkie started to make noise randomly a couple of hours ago. That I didn't think much of until I received the voicemail. Now I am beginning to wonder.
Are signs just a silly way of minds playing tricks when grief is raw? I always sit on the fence with these sort of things as it is but the voicemail message, though nothing there, has got me thinking.
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bangingmyheadoffabrickwall · 23/09/2017 16:07
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