I have a very jokey relationship with a colleague, nothing nasty just lots of banter. However this colleague's very young child has passed away (no warning very sudden). So what do you say, when there's nothing you can say, but it's wrong to be silent if that makes any sense? I also remember that after my miscarriages, (I am not comparing at all, I know a child you've had a life with would be worse to lose and my heart goes out to anyone who's gone through this) the one thing I couldn't cope with was people being too nice, I had to tell those that knew to stop and let me get on with work. But it seems wrong in this case to say nothing. I'm also lousy at dealing with others emotions although I do try.
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