My mother passed away in May..
I am getting along with it as best as can however sometimes I find the wave of grief just takes over.
Yesterday I went shopping for a Christmas present for my stepdad. I had spent some time trying to work out what to get him as I really wanted him to feel we had bothered and thought about the present. In the end I went to a Shop about 15 mins from where I live that sells hunting related items. I had after suggestions on here decided to go with a hat. (he is a hunter)
I am standing in the shop looking at the hats and the sales person asks.. Is it for a present and I just welled up in tears.. Then found myself having to explain.. At this point her eyes goes glassy wet and she says in a wobby tone " that was us last Christmas" So she at least understood. However it really shock me up for the day. I felt very serious and sad really is the only word for it.
I cant really get used to how this happens it just takes me by surprise and overwhelms me.
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Enkopkaffetak · 16/12/2015 22:48
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