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my mum died today

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inlectorecumbit Wed 02-Dec-15 22:08:15

I just had to write it down..i don't know why l had to post here but l just did. My heart is broken....

MrsBalustradeLanyard Wed 02-Dec-15 22:09:33

Oh no. I am so so sorry. You must be in shock. flowers

CocktailQueen Wed 02-Dec-15 22:10:21

Oh, I bet it is. Big hugs from me. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Do you want to talk about it?

MuttonWasAGoose Wed 02-Dec-15 22:10:27

I'm so sorry.

My mother died 11 years ago, and I still miss her.

I hope you have family and friends with you now for support.

DancingDinosaur Wed 02-Dec-15 22:10:27

I'm so sorry. Have you got any support at home?

InkleWinkle Wed 02-Dec-15 22:10:51

I'm so sorry. Do you want to tell us about her?

timelytess Wed 02-Dec-15 22:11:41

I'm sorry. flowers

SpellBookandCandle Wed 02-Dec-15 22:12:29

OH, I'm so very sorry. You sound so very sad. I hope you are with people who love you and share your loss. Do you want to tell us anything about your lovely mum? ((Hugs))

BigcatLittlecat Wed 02-Dec-15 22:12:45

I'm so sorry to hear about your mum. If yiu want to share some memories with us! We would love to hear them. On a practical note I hope you are not on your own. Xx

ImperialBlether Wed 02-Dec-15 22:12:52

flowers flowers flowers

I'm so sorry.

CharleyDavidson Wed 02-Dec-15 22:14:53

So sorry to hear that. I lost my Dad a few weeks ago and know just how unbelieveably difficult and painful it is.

flowers

inlectorecumbit Wed 02-Dec-15 22:16:19

She was old and suffering and it was a blessing really, but l wish the last conversation l had last night had been longer and l wish l had hugged her tighter when l saw her on Sunday.
The phone call this morning from the paramedics was not one l would wish on anyone.
Please everyone tell your family how much they mean to you and hug them tightly because you just don't know the minute it will all end.
I want my mum.

EatMeSeymour Wed 02-Dec-15 22:16:29

flowers flowers I am so sorry for your loss. What was your mum like? Your favourite memory of her?

My mum died when I was 18 and it makes me smile to this day to think of happy memories I have of her.

EatMeSeymour Wed 02-Dec-15 22:17:29

flowers for you too Charley

SugarMiceInTheRain Wed 02-Dec-15 22:20:38

I'm so sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself as losing a parent is such a hard thing to go through. My DH lost his dad on Monday and it's just so sad. Please try not to torment yourself with regrets, look after yourself. Hope you have some real life support xx

Bostin Wed 02-Dec-15 22:21:56

I am so sorry.
Don't feel guilty. It sounds like you were in very regular contact.

Sgtmajormummy Wed 02-Dec-15 22:22:45

flowers

SpellBookandCandle Wed 02-Dec-15 22:23:15

I'm glad her suffering is over. Your grief and pain is so very new and fresh. Please take care of yourself. Try to eat, drink and rest when you can. MN is open 24 hours a day. You can usually find a caring person here even in the darkest hours..xx

lizzie1971 Wed 02-Dec-15 22:25:44

flowers So sorry xx

Ilikesweetpeas Wed 02-Dec-15 22:33:01

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope that you have people around you to support you flowers

HesterShaw Wed 02-Dec-15 22:33:23

Very sorry OP flowers

It's natural to feel guilty but please don't torment yourself with "should haves". It sounds like you were a lovely daughter and you were there for her when she needed you xxx

margaritasbythesea Wed 02-Dec-15 22:33:41

I'm very sorry inlectore.

CocktailQueen Wed 02-Dec-15 22:35:46

You obviously kept in very close contact and had a good relationship. I'm sure your mum was happy you did.

Sparkygal Wed 02-Dec-15 22:41:48

So very sorry for your loss. I lost my mum a year ago tomorrow, it's still very painful but not as raw as the first hours, days, weeks, months. I know exactly how you are feeling.
Look after yourself, go with what you want or need. Draw strength from those supporting you. You grief will come and go in huge waves - let it.
Take care x

Pipsqueak23 Wed 02-Dec-15 22:43:10

So sorry for your loss.

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