She died today. She was 102.
My mother in law works in an assisted care home and DH took DS there a few years back, when our friend was "only" 99. She and DS took to each other right away and she invited us to her 100th birthday party.
I thought we'd better go because it would be small and it would be nice for someone to be there. It turned out to be the most well attended birthday I'd ever seen. She had a huge family who adored her and so many friends. She was so kind and lively and witty, and everyone loved her.
We went to visit every few months. She always remembered DS. She recognized him til his last visit two months ago, as well as the little brother and sister he's acquired since she met him. :)
She gave the DC candy every time she saw them and never said goodbye without adding "I love you, and so does God." She was devoutly religious and talked many times about being reunited with her husband, who has been dead for at least thirty years. She said "he's missed a lot- I'll have so much to tell him!" :)
I know that this board is filled with so many sad stories, so many young passing. I know I shouldn't feel so sad about a woman who got over a century...and a good century. She never developed dementia and could walk until last week. She was surrounded by loved ones and had visitors every day.
But I will miss her. It seems so strange we won't see her again. :(
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CheerfulYank · 23/11/2015 23:57
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