I didn't go to my grandpa's funeral because I was a teenager and I thought I wanted to remember him alive. I regret this now as I didn't say goodbye or hear people talking about him and in a way I don't feel like he's dead, just that he left.
Something brought his death up for me recently and I have cried about it for the first time in 21 years. He was a lovely kind man which cannot be said of any other men in my family.
I don't know how to go about saying goodbye. I don't know where his grave is and there's no one I can ask but if I find out and go there will that help?
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Regretting not going to my grandpa's funeral
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buttonmoonboots · 02/07/2015 08:23
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