Both babies. We don't talk about it in our family and my mother's life has been dreadful. I don't remember it much and I haven't thought about it much. But recently I have. I am scared to talk to my mother as I don't know how much emotional reserve to deal with opening up the subject I have at the moment-small baby and two dc as well. But I wonder what I can do to start to build bridges with my mum who has lost two other children and although we're in contact, me too really, because her mental health issues mean that I can't trust her or rely on her so I share little with her. Despite all that, I know that with such tragedy, it must be hard to get up each day and have compassion for her. What little things can I do to show her I care? Given that I find even telling her about little things in my life a big deal? And do you think somewhere inside losing my brothers is more meaningful to me than I credit myself with?
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I lost two brothers. How do I talk to my mum about them?
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Sleepglorioussleep · 15/10/2011 20:54
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