He just battled cancer for a year and was given the all clear just last week, then today he has a heart attack and dies.
He and mom are in London, my partner works in London so has gone to be with her. My little brother doesn't know yet and I'm 4 hours away in Devon with 2 young children and absolutely no-one to talk to.
I just feel so helpless, I keep bursting into tears, my 2 year old doesn't understand but keeps giving me cuddles. I can't talk to my partner coz he's with my mum. I just want to hug her, god what must she be feeling? They've been together 14yrs and only recently got married.
One son in bed, the other going soon. Then what? Do I just curl up on the sofa and wait for mum or partner so ring me? Do I phone them? She's still got to tell my brother, he still lives at home so mum, brother and partner will all be together and I want to be there too......
I don't know what to do :(
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Step-dad died today. It's just so shit.....
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YouHaveNoPowerOverMe · 22/09/2011 19:33
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