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Where does it come from???

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flangeismyfaveword Thu 01-Sep-11 01:25:51

I havent thought about him for ages and then out of the blue a stupid little thing and I'm in floods of tears.
It has been 11 years when will this stop?

MrsDBouquetVAMOSRAFA Thu 01-Sep-11 01:31:13

Sorry, I don't 'know' you.....thought about who ?

flangeismyfaveword Thu 01-Sep-11 01:33:52

My brother Chris.
I'm sorry this may not be the right place for this.

MrsDBouquetVAMOSRAFA Thu 01-Sep-11 01:35:32

Don't be sorry.

Grief hits us all at the strangest of times.

It can be a good thing. It shows that we still hold the person close in our hearts.

I don't think it ever goes away. You just learn to live with it little by little.

MrsDBouquetVAMOSRAFA Thu 01-Sep-11 01:36:21

Just because it's been X amount of years, it doesn't mean it gets any better/easier.

We all have our down days.


flangeismyfaveword Thu 01-Sep-11 01:40:44

I know, that is so true.
I can usually deal with it but tonight it feels quite raw? I dont know why.

Thank you for responding. X

MrsDBouquetVAMOSRAFA Thu 01-Sep-11 01:43:23

I suppose if we sat down and thought about it we would be quite confused at what sets us off.

I think sometimes it can be when a 'significant' time or date is approaching, or has past and in our subconcious we are thinking about things, but life 'gets in the way', sort of thing, so it hit's you when you least expect it.

You are more than welcome. X

MrsDBouquetVAMOSRAFA Thu 01-Sep-11 14:43:50

I hope you are feeling stronger, today, flange.

Lots of love. xxxxx

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