Where does it come from???

[flangeismyfaveword]

I havent thought about him for ages and then out of the blue a stupid little thing and I'm in floods of tears.
It has been 11 years when will this stop?

[MrsDBouquetVAMOSRAFA]

Sorry, I don't 'know' you.....thought about who ?

[flangeismyfaveword]

My brother Chris.
I'm sorry this may not be the right place for this.

[MrsDBouquetVAMOSRAFA]

Don't be sorry.

Grief hits us all at the strangest of times.

It can be a good thing. It shows that we still hold the person close in our hearts.

I don't think it ever goes away. You just learn to live with it little by little.

[MrsDBouquetVAMOSRAFA]

Just because it's been X amount of years, it doesn't mean it gets any better/easier.

We all have our down days.

((((HUGS))))

[flangeismyfaveword]

I know, that is so true.
I can usually deal with it but tonight it feels quite raw? I dont know why.

Thank you for responding. X

[MrsDBouquetVAMOSRAFA]

I suppose if we sat down and thought about it we would be quite at what sets us off.

I think sometimes it can be when a 'significant' time or date is approaching, or has past and in our subconcious we are thinking about things, but life 'gets in the way', sort of thing, so it hit's you when you least expect it.

You are more than welcome. X

[MrsDBouquetVAMOSRAFA]

I hope you are feeling stronger, today, flange.

Lots of love. xxxxx