For over a year my dad has been losing weight, all sorts of tests run on him and concluded there was something up with his pancreas. At easter he had a stroke and was in hospital where all a whole new battery of tests were run again. It´s a long story, but it turns out he has liver cancer. He is too weak to operate and probably too weak for chemo. The drs are still looking at options, but it´s looking bleak.
I spoke to him today after I had heard the latest news from my mother and was trying to hold back tears on the phone. He´s a three hour flight from me. I´m planning to visit in August but with 3 small dc and a dh who is travelling lots it´s hard to get away for long.
I don´t know how to deal with it all...I'm just in tears all the time. I worry that when I go to see him I will just break down, but want to be strong for him too. I find it so hard being so far from the rest of the family....
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living overseas and dad very very ill
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platanos · 06/06/2011 17:20
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