I hope this is the right place to post, I am just in a bit of a quandry. My best friend lost her DH nearly 3 years ago. She has since met someone else and is expected a baby in February. Her new partner is utterly lovely, although I have only met him a couple of times (she moved to another part of the country to be with him).
Now, my DH is in a band and I am organising a charity gig for November time. I thought it would be nice to do it memory of my friend as the date coincides with when he passed away (and he loved music and loved seeing my DH play). I talked to my friend (his widow) who thought it was a lovely idea. I reassured her it would be low key and not a big memorial - just more a reason to have a party, make some money and remember a good friend. No speeches, no photos of him around the place, just a line on the invitation that any money raised would go to charity x in memory of him and probably a song dedicated to him. My friend (his widow) was absolutely fine.
So, I sent out a note to a lot of my friends today to tell them about it and one of them called me to say she thought it was a terrible idea and that I was being utterly insensitive to our mutual friend's new partner.
So am I?
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GColdtimer · 16/09/2010 21:24
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