A close friend has just lost her dad. He died within days of her moving to London, she doesn't yet have a new job (she moved as her DP got a job there) and she's away from her network of friends. I'm going to see her in a few weeks but in the meantime wanted to send her a little parcel of 'nice things' - not to cheer her up, but just to let her know I'm thinking of her. The parcel would be chocolate, bath things, magazines - just small things that are non-essential but nice to have.
I've sent her a card already and we talk on the phone, but if she was still living in my home town I would have dropped round with food and offers of cleaning and trips out. But she's not here, I can't get to London and I hate to think of her alone in her grief. I wanted to send her a physical reminder that she's in my thoughts, but didn't want to send flowers.
DH says such a parcel would be insensitive. Is he right?
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Sufi · 15/07/2010 09:41
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