DS is 3.6 and seems to be in the middle of a full on Oedipus complex. I know this is normal at this age, but we are not sure how to handle DS attitude to DH.
DH and DS have always had a good relationship (even though ours is slightly better). DH is a very attentive father. However DS has said on a number of occassion that he doesnt love DS. Sometimes this has been the response when DH tells DS he loves him. SOmetimes he just says it spontaseously. Obviously DH is very upset about this.
We dont know how to react.
We have told DS that it hurts daddys feelings. Should he be disciplined in some way? ? Is it just a phase, so should we ignore it.?
I think DS has to understand that he needs to show his father respect. How though?
Any ideas?
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DS says he doesnt love DH
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cori · 09/08/2005 22:05
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