Hi Everyone, apologies for the length
I have a 1.10 and 2.10 year old we shall start with the youngest
DS2, He is an incredibly willfull and stubborn little boy who has recently turned aggresive, this evening with no provocation he headbutted his brother, to my knowledge he has never seen this happen, he also runs up and out of the blue pushes his brother.
When I tell him off he looks at me as if to say so, and I often feel as if he is laughing at me (not sure if this is possible but its what it feels like) naughty corner doesnt work (I do it supernanny style by the book)he gets upset in it and will stay for the entire duration we chat after it and he seems to understand what he is doing wrong, I know he is very young but I would rather it didn't continue so I feel I have to punish him the same way I would his brother.
He is also a wild child, he is never still constantly flitting from one thing to the next and has spectacular temper tamtrums when he doesn't get his own way. (throws himself on the floor screaming the lot) he is hard work a lot of the time, but he loves music and hates being restrained in anyway going shopping is a nightmare, he runs everywhere to the point where I have to power walk to keep up with him. He also goes very internal and quiets at odd times.
Now my husband is blaming me for his behaviour and says I don't discipline him im to soft etc etc this really upsets me as I try really hard to control and discipline him but I don't know if there are other things I should be doing, he is like fire really
My DS1 is on the whole a good little boy, but this evening he stands in his door and wees all over the floor his potty is in his bedroom a bout 1m away and the bathroom is next door to him he has been potty trained since may and he did it himself, he is a sensitive chatty chap who gets unsure in new situations and has more than a few things that make him scared.
He is also getting the attitude of a teenager but I think its normal, as in I ask him to do something and he says no or I don't want to do that (he is a bit of a pedant in the making I think) He is very sensitive and crys a lot when his brother nudges him in his boulderish fashion over the top I feel in some situation and he too throws tamtrums but more since his baby brother started them up.
Any help or strategys would be great.
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Colonelcupcake · 08/11/2009 20:18
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