So, I thought we had been spared toddler nightmares. But now I am at my wits end
She used to have a tantrum (by which I mean ten to thirty minutes of hysterical crying) about once a week. Which I could deal with.
The last few days we have had three or four a day. All about ridiculous things - e.g. 'I want to hit the baby'. 'I want to have gone to the shop' (after we're home already) etc etc. I've always tried to reason with her, and before now it's worked, but no longer. I am actually looking forward to her going to nursery for the afternoon, which I feel terrible about. Who took away my cheerful baby and brought this screamer?!
The worst thing is that she's doing it at night too (somewhere around 3am-5am) and then I have no idea at all what it's about, and she can't explain either.
We went on holiday a couple of weeks ago, so I think maybe it's that her routine has been disrupted. But how long is it going to take to get back in to it again?
So - is this normal, to suddenly start tantrum-ing when almost three years old? Or should I be worrying that there's some kind of underlying problem (no temperature, she says nothing hurts, so I'm thinking more like some emotional problem she can't explain)?
I think I'm going to try showering her with attention for the next couple of days and see if that helps, but any other suggestions gratefully received.
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2.9 yo DD - is this behaviour within the bounds of normality?
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lucasnorth · 26/10/2009 11:50
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