Sorry - this is long! I tried to include details so you can see what I've tried already...
DS has always been a brilliant sleeper - I'm now getting payback for any smugness I might have felt!
On Friday, he woke up around 1.30am really crying and calling out for me. I went in and picked him up and immediately he calmed down. But as soon as I started to put him in his cot he started clawing me and screaming out again. Picked him up, right as rain, put him back, more screaming. In the end, I brought him into bed with us. At first he lay quite happily (although not asleep) but after about half an hour he was chatting and poking our faces. i took him back to his cot, lay him down and he started crying again. In the end we did some controlled crying (5 mins then 7 mins) and he settled. By this point I had been awake for 2 hours.
The next day he woke up a little later but not much. After lunch, I put him down for his nap and he cried almost immediately. I decided to do more controlled crying as it seemed to work the night before (5 mins, 7, 9, 11, 13, 15, 17). Every time I went in he was standing up. I'd pick him up, he'd immediately calm down. As soon as he went near his cot, more tears. By 3pm he still wasn't asleep and by then I thought it was getting too late for him to sleep without affecting the evening (and I felt like I wasn't getting anywhere anyway) so I got him up.
He then went to sleep fine on saturday and slept through to the morning (he cried out briefly at one point but immediately settled himself back to sleep).
Last night he woke up at 11.20. To cut a long story short, dh ended up sleeping on the floor in his room for a couple of hours, I then took over (he woke up crying when dh left) for several more hours. As a result we have one tired crotchety family!
At least he does seem to have settled for his nap today....
Has anyone experienced this? What did you do??
As I said, he has always slept so well I am completely stuck. He sucks on a muslin so he has that comfort. He seems to be suffering from massive separation anxiety. (He can be a bit like that in the day time too - crying when I leave the room).
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DS 19 months is waking in the night for hours on end - help!!
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nondomesticgoddess · 19/10/2009 14:21
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