Dd2 is 5 and in Year 1. She is in a small class of 11 children. At her parents evening this week her teacher told me that for the last 2 weeks she has been very non-compliant and has even staged mini-protests when she is asked to do something, on one occasion going into a sulk and sitting under the table Last year she didn't do anything like this.
Her teacher and I have come up with a plan where she has a chart. If she is good at school (and only if her teacher thinks she can have one), she gets a sticker for that day, and when she has 15 she can have a watch (she really wants a watch and has been asking me for one for some time).
Do you think this is a good idea?
I can think of quite a few reasons why dd might be misbehaving. She has a lot to cope with really - an older sister with ASD, I had a baby in April and she has lost 5 friends from reception who have moved to other schools. I also have bipolar disorder and have had to spend a month in hospital this year after dd3 was born. However, in spite of all these things I feel that there must be some way to raise her so that she doesn't turn into a delinquent!!
Does anyone have any advice - do you think the chart is a good idea? And how can I make her feel more secure in spite of everything?
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Dd2, in Year 1 has started misbehaving at school - do you think this is a good way to address it?
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electra · 15/10/2009 10:20
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