DS is a June birthday, and is doing half days at the moment. When I picked him up his teacher asked me for a word. At playtime he apparently hit two (Yr 3) children. When spoken to by the playground staff, he ran off, as he did when his teacher spoke to him.
He then threatened to hit the members of staff, ran off and was basically horrible. He did eventually apologise, but took ages to calm down and was kicking out and aggressive.
What to do? He can be a lovely, friendly, kind boy, who others gravitate to as he is lively and funny and caring. When he 'turns' though he behaves like a toddler on a bad day, except he is four. He knows it is not acceptable to do this, but he just loses it. It is worse when he is tired or hungry, but neither of these are the reason for his behaviour - it is just an aspect of his personality/maturity.
I am sure 'this too will pass', but what can I do to help him (and myself) in the meantime? I feel very upset that he behaves like this sometimes. He does have an older brother and they do fight, but no more than any other brothers I don't think. He doesn't watch anything like Power Rangers or that kind of thing. When he gets cross though, there really is no talking/dealing with him.
Any and all advice/support really welcomed
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DS, 4, hitting at school
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thesunandtherain · 13/10/2009 13:20
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