I dont know if im totally out of order here because DS is my only child, but he seems to be totally without empathy after the first 10 seconds of sorry. He thinks he can just repeat bad behaviour and say sorry and that makes it ok.
Even in an instance where someone he hurt was actually crying, after saying sorry, patting her shoulder etc., after about 10 seconds he just left her crying and went on to play with something else. this is someone he is very, very close to.
I have tried explaining that saying sorry doesnt make everything right, that he needs to not be naughty or horrible in the first place but I think I must be using the wrong words because he just doesnt get it.
Am I expecting too much? He is 4+2.
Thanks.
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When do children learn to empathise?
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mankymummymoo · 04/10/2009 16:26
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