do you ever get feelig toddler really annoyed/hates you fo fear of using strong word

[bumbly]

just recently he is fine with everyoine but me

could it be that mum is the discpline one and therefore the annoying one? the hated one?

[Beeny1980]

not im my experience - i'm the discipline master in our house yet my DH gets all the flack as he is not...

I do have to say though that DD often changes her mind as to who she likes / dislikes etc but that normally only lasts a few days and she'll change again. Yours may just be going thru a little phase which will pass soon enough.

Never give up on the discipline though - it will shape them as a human being in society and in the long term make them much better in the community!! Take this from someone who (professionally) frequently has to deal with the fall out of little or no parental control!!

Good luck
Beeny

[bumbly]

thank you - i know am harsh and feel awful at home when i discipline

but it is for a reason as you say!

[bumbly]

thank you - i know am harsh and feel awful at home when i discipline

but it is for a reason as you say!

[bumbly]

thank you - i know am harsh and feel awful at home when i discipline

but it is for a reason as you say!

[Beeny1980]

Never feel harsh / awful - he will respect you more in the long run and your relationship will be better for it.
You will also shape what sort of Dad and partner / husband he will become in the future (this has been proven) so you're doing the future generations a favour too.

[meandjoe]

Errm I really don't think he hates you bumbly. It's probably just feels more secure with you so he knows he can let you see when he's upset or angry.

I would deffintely keep up with the disciplining as long as you are being fair and consistant which is very hard.

You aren't annotying or the 'hated one'! You're mummy and we get all the bits that noone else has to put up with!