DS is 3.4 and we adopted him at 20 months old. He's just started nursery school (3 mornings/week). DH and I care for him jointly - in theory 50/50, but in practice DH's job is such that I end up doing many weekends and bedtimes, and DH has an afternoon each week where they visit his parents and DS plays with them. So more like 60/40 or 70/30 split.
DS has always favoured Daddy (who is fantastic with him). His relationship with me has been more variable. of late he's become more hostile to me - won't let me kiss him for example, even at bedtime. I hoped it would improve with the summer holidays ending. However when I came in from work tonight he really didn't want me interrupting his game with Daddy, and I got some real verbals - 'I don't like Mummy, I only like Daddy' etc etc
That said, I have just done 5 days of solid childcare (DH having a work crisis) during which we have had a lovely time and he has been wonderful company.
very sad mummy
Is this within normal toddler range of behaviour? Whether it is or isn't, any advice on dealing with it apart from time and infinite patience?
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I don't like Mummy, I only like Daddy
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normanthehairdresser · 21/09/2009 20:49
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