19 month old DS has started waking very suddenly (we co-sleep so we wake very if he does) with really hysterical tantrums in the middle of the night. We can't touch him, speak to him, offer him anything, without his full force raging becoming dangerous as he throws himself all over the place, literally thrashing about with all limbs. It was so extreme last night I was really frightened. Lasted more than 45 minutes at full force, we were up for a couple of hours. Can't figure out what is wrong or what he needs. It might be trigered by a bad dream but doesn't seem to be dream fright and lasts far too long to be a dream reaction outright. In the end, I had to carry him kicking and screaming and rigid to another room and we put some raisins on a little plate and eventually he took interest (after taking them and throwing them down again a few times) and ate a few and snapped out of it almost as fast as he snapped into it. It can't be pure hunger as he feeds well before bed etc. It seems and feels really psychological, a processing of sorts but I must say I'm really concerned as it's very frightening to witness. He's had a nasty fall a couple of weeks ago resulting in loss of consciousness but these episodes were happenning before that albeit less intensely and he has a five week old sibling which is a huge change for him but he has been nothing but utter sweetness with her and seemingly unperturbed. I realise however that on a different level he might be processing the change in family dynamics which is no small thing in his world.
Someone I know had a similar experience with her LO and went to psychologist but with her it was a peculiar sort of sleep hysteria, and I'm quite sure that our DS is very awake. Unless he was also in a sleep tantrum of some sort and only woke up with the raisins were in front of him? But there is nothing sleep like whatsoever about his very forceful thrashing and blood curdling screaming.... Just thinking out loud here.
Can anyone offer any insight? Rather freaked out about it....
Thanks!
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Hysterical tantrum night awakenings... Anyone else experienced this
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justlookatthatbooty · 07/09/2009 16:27
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