Hello,
I am not quite sure how to explain this but since my eldest son was first born I was paranoid that he would have aspergers syndrome as my brother does. I have always been looking out for signs and when he had delayed speech I got more worried. He started to speak fine when he got to 3 and a half and I was so relieved.
But while he doesn't seem to show typical signs of aspergers I am worried about a few things:
He always talks really loudly (he's not got hearing problems).
He is always trying to get heard and has started to have a stammer and he has been referred for speech therapy. He always seems really in your face when he is trying to talk to anyone.
He is really sensitive and cries in a really over the top way when anything doesn't go quite his way.
He is obsessive about things and will ask me a question and then just go on and on about it even though I have answered his question.
The teacher was worried about him dealing with the change of class and they really made a great fuss of him to help him deal with it!
A few of my friends have seemed a bit shocked at the way he goes on and on about stuff obsessively. For instance he will ask for something and when I say no he just goes on and on and on, even though I don't give in. Or yesterday he wanted ice cream at the beach and I said we could buy one on the walk back and then all afternoon literally he was saying 'can we go now'!
When writing it down it doesn't look like much to worry about I know but he just seems different to other children of his age. They always seem really quiet and easy going compared to him. He is not naughty and is very sensible and rule abiding. But he is very demanding though and has only just started spending small amounts of time alone in his room before that he was at my ankles wherever I was in the house. He also talks none stop and does seem particularly friendly to adults though he does have friends his own age. He is really interested in things like space and medical stuff in a very intellectual way and I have trouble answering a lot of the questions!!! He is very loving and cuddly.
When compared to his little brother they seem so different. His little brother just seems to be so much more easy going and everything seems to come easily to him.
Not sure this makes much sense at all but just was wondering what anyone thought?
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My 5 year old son - a bit worried about him
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2babyblues · 28/08/2009 16:21
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